Outfit of the day
Feeling cute today. Full length is a couple of hours after the head-shot.
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#SelfieSaturday
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I stopped at the gas station this morning and one of the clerks (who knew I was trans and had had top surgery) revealed that she was going to get her boobs done.
And she asked me who my surgeon was, so she could go there too.
I'm pretty sure that that's what victory sounds like.
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@StormyDragon Not in the least! I love my boobs, and as long as people aren't leering at me I'm very happy to talk to folks about them. 😊
Ask away!
Well, who was you surgeon? Or since they're likely far afield for me, how does one go about finding a similar surgeon in their area?
Given the pressure to go smaller, how do you distinguish "actually too big" from "just right but society doesn't want me to think so"?
If someone is worried about career impacts, do you have any advice?
Mine was Don Revis, Jr. of South Florida Plastic Surgery Associates. He's phenomenal, specializes in big damn tiddies, and is great with transfems.
Realself is a great place to look--but almost all of the best top surgeons are in LA or south FL.
I tested with breast forms and rice sizers, but ultimately you need to follow your heart. That last bit was incredibly tough for me, because I was afraid big time of job impacts. None have come--to paraphrase CJ, I'm already a trans--
@StormyDragon
--woman. The tits hardly enter into it as career impacts go, regardless of size. And besides, they legally can't say a thing, because it'd be sexual harassment.
If your heart calls out to get giant boobs, and you can manage the financial and practical part of it, I honestly say go for it, and as big as you dream. Nobody's gonna hate you for your tits who didn't already hate you for being trans.
@StormyDragon Also, here with more specific details:
https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/p/jiggle-physics
Jiggle Physics
Everything you need to know if you want to breast boobilyDoc Impossible (Stained Glass Woman)
Something something merely by existing, trans women create space for cis(?) women to question patriarchal assumptions.
Maybe. I dunno.
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"It’s so clear that he has never had a real position on abortion, the whole Roe v. Wade thing was just a bone he threw to the yapping fundamentalists, he has to squint to get the names of the Supreme Court justices right even to thank them."
~ Lucian K. Truscott
https://luciantruscott.substack.com/p/were-you-waiting-with-bated-breath
Were you waiting with bated breath for Trump’s big announcement on abortion? Plop: it’s here.
Please give me a moment while I reach around and pat myself on the back, because I just finished watching the video of Trump’s abortion announcement on Truth Social, so you don’t have to. In a word, it was excruciating.Lucian K. Truscott IV (Lucian Truscott Newsletter)
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Again. We fucking knew he was a liar in 2016, and now this is 'oh, whoa, he's been lying all this time'????
WAKE UP. DO YOUR JOB - which is not to be stenographers, but to report the FACTS.
There's no strategy. He's just an asshole who can't self-govern. This is worse than the 'Obama is a chess grandmaster' style of reporting.
DJT is a fucking idiot and likely has dementia.
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Janel Diaz - "It should not matter to you how I dress, what I choose to wear, how I choose to express myself. It should not make you angry how I'm living my life," Diaz says. "That's what makes me want to fight so much more for the cause, for my organization Capital Tea being here in the Bible Belt."
In Florida, Capital Tea sets out to protect trans rights : NPR
https://www.npr.org/2024/03/31/1241386011/florida-trans-rights-activist-book-ban-rupaul
#trans #transgender #TransRightsAreHumanRights #Florida #JanelDiaz
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Transgender Day of Visibility
Today is the #TransgenderDayOfVisibilty. Tell the #trans people in your life that they are important, and that you support them just as they are.
And to my siblings who, for whatever reason, cannot live openly and visibly, you are valid and loved, on this and every day.
ID: Blue, pink, and white starburst pattern. In the white area, black text, after trans symbol, says:
TODAY IS
TRANSGENDER
DAY OF VISIBILITY
CELEBRATE YOUR TRANS LOVED ONES
TODAY AND EVERY DAY.
LOVE ALWAYS!
#TDOV
#transgender
#TransJoy
#transfemme
#transmasc
#enby
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New selfie
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OTD in 2009
I made my first announcement to my closest friends that I was #trans. It was on a social media site known as LiveJournal, which many of you have likely never heard of. I migrated off of that site years ago. You can see that post now on my blog at https://janetannelogan.wordpress.com/2009/03/13/announcement/ . It's no longer locked.
Barbara and I had discussed me making that post in advance, and she was supportive. This was my first attempt at transition. Then in August of 2009, she went back into the hospital, and I detransitioned to be able to care for her. Back then, we feared I wouldn't be able to be with her as Janet. After she passed in 2010, I grieved for a long time. Then I restarted transition and have lived as Janet since.
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I think most people would object to forcing women to wear skirts. Beating up girls who do unladylike things like dancing or calculus. Many can even see how silly it is to tease a boy for enjoying painting more than sports.
Most* get this.
What I don't understand is how it isn't obvious that transphobia is the exact same impulse.
There is no "reasonable" amount of transphobia you can tolerate without also supporting rigid harmful gender norms in general. 1/
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wow. I hadn't thought of that 😢 … all girls might feel pressure to dress like "real"** girls, to avoid harrassment? 😡 #grrr
** I.e. M∆G∆ evangelical girls
Wait, I know: what if they all just wore a uniform? That'd be so much simpler …
😭
People, on the whole and by and large, DO support rigid harmful gender norms.
The norms have been expanded some, so that women can wear pants (but watch the utter unspeakable freakout if a woman should get married in pants) but unevenly and not really that much. The idea of norms, that there must be a norm and it must be enforced, is alive and well and receives its regular tithe of human sacrifices.
Um...
I may have bought my first miniskirt.
I like it. I'm a little shy about it yet.
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I drove past Owasso twice today. I thought I had forgot to cry, but the rain poured. They were all I could think about today.
And that astonishingly grossly callous superintendent who can only think about himself and his pit of cold hate. If Nex was a commissioned law enforcement officer, the bullies would have been immediately behind bars without bail for murder.
😢💜 Blessed be.
I cry for them, and all of our youth like them. I fear for all of us. I fear that we may yet live to see what the Christofascists want for us become reality.
I am fully infertile.
I want to get that out of the way up front, because it's true. I have no dog in the fight.
But I want to state, unequivocally and clearly, that I stand with those who have the equipment for giving birth on the topic of abortion, and IVF, and any other power grabs the right comes up with to control the bodies of birthing people.
For me, it's an issue we as trans people should be fighting as hard for as we fight for our own direct issues. Bodily autonomy applies. It's the same basic issue motivating both anti-trans and anti-abortion campaigners: control of others' bodies.
When we fight for abortion access, we are indirectly and directly still fighting for trans people. We're fighting for trans masc and AFAB enby people to be given full rights over their own bodies. That's the direct path. We're also fighting for the right for all trans people to control our bodies.
So let's stand beside our uterine neighbours, trans women. We are all in the same fight.
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Now, the flip side.
Cis women! It's time you stood up with us to fight for trans rights. It's your fight too.
Why? Because it's all about bodily autonomy. Trans people are fighting for the right to control our own bodies. Sound familiar?
It's the same fight, women. We need your help, just as we give ours. We are in the same fight, and should be shoulder to shoulder about both our sets of issues.
The best way to fight fascism is *together*. The more of us fighting, the better our chances of winning.
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I FEEL this but I cant tell you how many times I have attempted to show my alliance only to be shot down because I couldnt possibly understand.........................
I gave up. I simply watch now. Because my desire to be an ally was very often seen as unwelcome.
I appreciate this message so much. We need to stand together on "each others" issues, because they are actually the same issue.
If bodily autonomy can be restricted for one group, that means it can also be so for any group. Any time this is threatened, anyone else who could be next needs to speak up.
Since it could be anyone, that means everyone needs to care. I like to think that we could get to a point that most people see these as the same issue and stand together by default.
What we're up against is the conviction that women are half-persons; a semi-human mechanism that men use to make more men.
If you're a woman who for whatever reason can't or won't submit to that, or anybody else who won't play their assigned part, you aren't a person at all. You are diseased tissue that must be excised from the social body.
The fascists say all this out loud. They are monsters, but they aren't stupid. They have a detailed program, well under way.
AT&T outage leaves more than 70,000 phones without service
Cause of outage is unknown, but some suspect it's network-to-network "peering."
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