The number of people on the internet who think using shame will cause people to change or even listen shows the gut belief about the human mid works. Shame only EVER works if paired with respect. You must care about the opinion of a person before shame has any impact at all. Shaming people online especially is dumb with your own assumption that they respect you. Shame is a method of showing a lack of respect and poor opinion. Shame is respect denial but only actually after giving respect. You are being essentially an emotional drug dealer. They need their fix, but you HAVE to get them hooked first. If you haven't do that, people react terribly because literally all you are doing is disrespecting someone, straight off the bat and unless you are really charismatic, your chances of having the impact you want is near zero. #psychology #communication #shame
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in reply to anubis2814 • • •Yep! Prime example: Trump’s former lawyer Michael Cohen had no remorse about using campaign funds to pay off a porn star who Trump slept with until his father rebuked him.
👉🏾 Cohen’s father said he didn’t survive Holocaust to have his name ‘sullied’ by Trump: report 📰 https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/news/403195-cohens-father-said-he-didnt-survive-holocaust-to-have-his-name/
Cohen’s father said he didn’t survive Holocaust to have his name ‘sullied’ by Trump: report
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